House warming. Do they even have those anymore? I don’t know but after all the drama and trauma of the too-long three-week installation of our new patio, it seemed appropriate to have a patio warming.
Do you throw yourself this sort of party?
I’ve always been a little confused by the social standards and expectations for parties, especially if they involved gifts. Doesn’t it seem a little self-centered to throw yourself a birthday bash so people will shower you with gifts?
In this case, the only gift required was attendance…and maybe a side dish for the barbecue.
Our house is seventeen-months new. But that doesn’t mean it has no need for improvement.
It was pretty obvious during our first summer here that the patio was insufficient.
I mean, I like to do editing, read-through and read-aloud stages in an outdoor office if the weather is nice. Which is less than six months out of the year in the Pacific Northwest.
The original patio that came with the house was hardly large enough for the grill and my lounge chair.
I wish I was kidding.
So on the short wish list of things I wanted to change, the outdoor entertaining area of the back yard become the top priority.
The project started a week before we expected it to. And lasted a week longer than we were told to expect.
And it was messy.
So I didn’t have any outdoor office options for about one month of my three-month summer.
And it wasn’t just the back of the house that became a disaster area.
Who knew patio stones could take up two curbside parking spaces?
The weather decided to cooperate. And then escalate.
The day the secondary crew (which we weren’t supposed to need) came to fix the issues the first crew couldn’t seem to deal with, temperatures soared into triple digits.
In the end, it didn’t have the level appearance I had imagined.
This is the problem with an imagination. At times it hinders our enjoyment of life as much as false expectations.
Truthfully though, I have everything I could want with a soothing water feature and portable fire pit still to be added.
I spent time in the lounger and at the table reading through the first draft of my novel-in-progress.
And there was plenty of space for the family to recline during the patio warming event on Labor Day.
It seemed fitting to inaugurate something that required so much labor on that auspicious day.
And the warmest news of all? Those stones heat up and hold the warmth like nobody’s business.
What is the most important feature for your outdoor living space?